I've had enough!!!

bevvsedge · #1 (**permalink**) 28-10-08, 10:12

aarrgh. Time for a serious whinge I think, and since there is noone to call today you guys are gonna cop it instead! sorry.

I feel so awful, exhausted, I don't even want to get off the sofa as I feel so yuk. I have aches everywhere, my back (it is better sometimes than others) my tummy just feels "delicate" shall we say, whenever he moves it hurts and I feel nauseous and dazed and quite sorry for myself actually. I also have annoying pelvic pressure which is so bloody uncomfortable it's untrue. Since I am not having regular contractions and just the odd ones when I do something "too much" like lift Ollie or something I'm pretty sure this is not labour.

Things on the net say "early labour symptoms" which means what? I have anther 3/4 weeks of THIS!? grrr God I am in such a foul mood, think I might have a cry, that always makes me feel better!

Teilosmummy · #2 (**permalink**) 28-10-08, 10:16

Big hugs Bev, the last few weeks are so hard, epecially when you have a lo to look after already. Try to get some rest when Ollie does, even if you just put your feet up on the sofa with a cuppa.

Bubba82 · #3 (**permalink**) 28-10-08, 10:18

ahhh babes big hugs

if it helps you're not alone, my SPD is getting worse, i can't lay on my back at all as i get stuck like it, it hurts too much to roll over! and yeah everytime the lil man moves it hurts oh and to make things worse Mia lent on my tit with her elbow this morn which flippin hurt soooo much

have some choccy babe with a hot choccy drink and totally indulge today, does a nice warm bath help at all?? you can always put Ollie in with you so you don't have to worry about what he's up to xxx

bevvsedge · #4 (**permalink**) 28-10-08, 10:22

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Originally Posted by Bubba82

ahhh babes big hugs

if it helps you're not alone, my SPD is getting worse, i can't lay on my back at all as i get stuck like it, it hurts too much to roll over! and yeah everytime the lil man moves it hurts oh and to make things worse Mia lent on my tit with her elbow this morn which flippin hurt soooo much

have some choccy babe with a hot choccy drink and totally indulge today, does a nice warm bath help at all?? you can always put Ollie in with you so you don't have to worry about what he's up to xxx

If only I had chocolate!

The bath idea is good, only better do when Ollie has a nap as he climbs everywhere and it would probably make me more stressed out than before! haha

I just want this over now! boo hoo!

ps

I am with you on the sore boobs, Ollie is great at elbowing mine too! ouchie!

pps

thanks both of you! x

Bubba82 · #5 (**permalink**) 28-10-08, 10:28

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Originally Posted by bevvsedge

If only I had chocolate!

The bath idea is good, only better do when Ollie has a nap as he climbs everywhere and it would probably make me more stressed out than before! haha

I just want this over now! boo hoo!

ps

I am with you on the sore boobs, Ollie is great at elbowing mine too! ouchie!

pps

thanks both of you! x

right make this your plan of action then, bit of a soak in nice warm bubble bath with a hot choccy drink and listening to a bit of music then out you get and slather that lovely preggy body in some body lotion, hopefully that'll make you feel better and no matter how much u can't be arsed to put on the body lotion you'll be happy that you did afterwards xxxx

rhianwen · #6 (**permalink**) 28-10-08, 11:10

big hugs babes hope you get that nice hot bath and feel relaxed. The last few weeks are so hard xxx

bevvsedge · #7 (**permalink**) 28-10-08, 11:28

Thanks guys! hehe

I always put my lotion on, just in case it does help with the stretchmarks, even though people say it makes no difference I always do so what if I stopped and got them? I know I am talking nonsense!

I knew you guys would cheer me up, hubbies are no help, how do they understand?

on a good note Ollie has been like a little angel today! Maybe he can sense how delicate mummy is? He came over and rubbed my face and kissed me when I was lying on the sofa which was lovely and has been entertaining himself really well, ate all his vegatables for lunch (he has a phase of throwing half his food on the floor atm, think we might be getting over it, yay!). He has just gone for his nap like a good boy, no fuss! Love that little man! x x x x x

mrsharvey · #8 (**permalink**) 28-10-08, 11:37

big hugs Bev, hope you start feeling a bit better after a long soak in the tub!!! xxx

Nickit · #9 (**permalink**) 28-10-08, 12:25

Enjoy a soak in the tub and be reassured that I'm feeling almost identical but I actually find being in the bath quite uncomfortable I'm so big!!! So no real joy there for me!!

I am lucky today in that Isabelle is at nursery and my mat leave has now started so I've got the day completely to myself - bliss. This is my sit on my arse and do nothing day! I've got a 'jobs' day tomorrow (although not too many jobs I assure you!)

I'm thinking things might happen next week (hopefully); got a growth scan on Friday so we'll find out a bit more then.

I hope that you feel better after your bath, lotion and hot chocolate regime!!!

bevvsedge · #10 (**permalink**) 28-10-08, 12:57

thanks!

Don't think I'm going to get the bath, Ollie has woken up a bit early, I "tried" to have a bit of a nap instead, haha that was pointless!

Mine is a sitting on my arse day too, as walking around makes me feel so bloody awful, only obviously not as easy with little one running about!