why do i feel so rubbish???

[wickypop]

Originally Posted by noababy

Did you stop taking the antidepressants? Chefck with your doc cause there are ones you can take preggers and if you feel this low already, you may find it harder to cope down the road. No harm in asking-definately talk to the doc as well as hv!

big hugs!

hiya hun, yes i stopped the antidepressents as advised by the doc.....and have been feeling fine till now!!!! if i dont pick up i will def go bak....its not fair on any of us! x x x x x x

Acad.....thanks for your kind words...inlaws just bought my little man back all ready for bed...i am very lucky hubby and i have just been sat watching tv....the housework and ironing will have to wait til i am feeling better!!! x x x x x x

[wickypop]

Originally Posted by jewel

aaah babes, big hugs. I find that i always feel the worst in the first and last trimesters. At the mo being in the third trimester I am finding it hard coping with a toddler (especially during the night as she still doesnt sleep properly!!). I've been panicking and questioning my ability to cope once lo arrives but i guess I will cross that bridge whwen i come to it - thankfully I have a large support network to keep an eye on me.

I'm sure when this period passes and you start to feel physically better you will feel more positive about things. If not, make sure you speak to us as but more importantly someone in your support network or HV/midwife.

Take care hun and im sure things will improve.

T x

thanks hun....i did see your sleeping post...am so hoping we have Olivers sleep sorted by the time this LO arrives.....am already wondering how i will look after Oliver in the 3rd trimester when my bump gets huge!!!! lots of women have a 2nd baby and survive so am sure we will manage!!!!!! just seems daunting!!!!! x x x x x x x x x

[BenandBellasMummy]

Big hugs, hope you start to feel better, of course the housework can wait (mine is til Ben starts school!) Take advantage of your inlaws it's lovely Oli enjoys it and as Beth said you are growing a person you need your rest xxx

[fiona25]

Wickypop, it's completely normal what your feeling. Your doing a great job with Oli and when your new lo comes along, your going to cope just fine. Use your in-laws as much as you can, your going to need to take it easy over the coming months and it's obvious they love havin Oli and vice versa. Im 7 weeks gone at the moment and I too have been stressing myself out about having another baby. Like you, Im delighted and cant wait but Natalie is'nt sleeping or eating very well at the moment and Im panicking about nipping these problems in the bud, as I dont want to struggle when the new baby arrives. Ive got a lot of family support and I intend to use and abuse them lol xxxx