I've asked him to leave...

[Imosmummy]

At least it is a good start. Must be very hard to hear he didnt miss you as much big hugs. But he must have missed you enough to still want to make it work. As for the sex thing, feeling really loved and valued goes along way, i think the dating thing will help alot as far as that is concerned.
Hows ruby?

[Rachael1]

It sounds as if it is going in the right direction. I'd say you're probably right that the break is probably something that was needed. Counselling is def the way forward. Fingers crossed for you. We're all here as you go thru it.x.

[mitzigollop]

Originally Posted by Imosmummy

At least it is a good start. Must be very hard to hear he didnt miss you as much big hugs. But he must have missed you enough to still want to make it work. As for the sex thing, feeling really loved and valued goes along way, i think the dating thing will help alot as far as that is concerned.
Hows ruby?

Yeah you do need to feel loved and made to feel important (not really enough to say to me that he think's i'm sexy he needs to make me feel sexy but they don't get that so they!) to want to make love and i guess that's been missing from both sides without us really realising!
Ruby's ok, don't know if she has any idea or not as she could easily go 5 days without seeing Matt anyway because of his job. She got to see Matt last night so that's good for both of them.

[rhianwen]

Im glad things went well and your are doing all the right things stay strong hun xxx

[EllieJane]

I am glad he came round to talk - been thinking of you lots hun!
Let me know how relate goes, we are 'booked in' too!

xXx

[rachaelmae]

Its a big step in the right direction, hope it goes well sweetiexxxxx

[Imosmummy]

Originally Posted by EllieJane

I am glad he came round to talk - been thinking of you lots hun!
Let me know how relate goes, we are 'booked in' too!

xXx

Thats great! Hope things go well

[mitzigollop]

Originally Posted by EllieJane

I am glad he came round to talk - been thinking of you lots hun!
Let me know how relate goes, we are 'booked in' too!

xXx

great news. I hope it helps us both. xx

[kite]

i left my oh backin oct as he was being abusive to me, although it was very hard know now i made the rite choice as 3 days later he had another girlfriend.
obviously he was seeing her while he was with me and i hate the thought of them in my oldhouse together, everyone on this site really helped me with advice and kind words.
i dont know what to say as my head is still pretty messed up and i dontrekon im in any posistion to offer advice! but i really hope things work out for you.
look after yourself.

xoxo kara

[EllieJane]

How did relate go hun? Been thinking of you loads!

xXx