am i a cow or what?

[mrsharvey]

maybe have a little chat with her hun and give her some advice, it's hard when you have one already and then have to get used to the no sleep, being a feeding machine etc etc hope she is ok xxx

[carla]

i have tried to help her with the bf but i don't think her hearts in it she only feed her other two for a week or two!

her oh is cr*p on he day she had him i popped round and he was asleep on the sofa and the two boys was running around like mad things they aren't very good children anyway!!
although he did go out a buy her a breast pump thinking it may help with the bf but she had a go at him for spending £70 on it and made him take it back

[Tam]

Poor girl, she sounds so down
Hubby need to buck up and help more and maybe you and her could go away for the night?

That might help her a bit, take the stress off for a night and let hubby see how hard she has it!

[cathyg]

blimey, doesn't sound good. is the baby being neglected?? fancy being so disappointed that it wasn't the sex you wanted, that you couldn't be arsed to care for it properly. some people, she should be glad to have another baby thats healthywhatever the sex. Hope she sorts her head out soon.