Family feeding help (baby / 2 year old)

[2babies2luv]

Hi all,
i am on my last month of maternity and trying to get things in order so that my return to work is stressfree for me and my children. I have a 8 month old baby boy and a 2 year old girl. I am looking for ideas to make for lunch and dinner that can incorporate everyone. Family meals is a big thing in our house and we try to all sit down whenever we can. I would like ideas on nuturious food for my 2 yeard old (help her develop eating with fork and knife instead of hands) but also double up as finger food for my baby that my husband and I can also enjoy. At the moment we only have pasta that I make with a vegetable based pasta sauce, but looking for more ideas that are quick and easy after returning back from work. We eat a lot of fish, turkey and meat. Any suggestions most welcome - thanks.