oh dear I only just came into this forum to find the answer of SAME question....
My 21 months old son is the same
never likes touching anything wet or slimy like cooked meal or cut up fruits or veg..he'd only eat dry things like, dry cereal, dry crisp(which i dont really give him), dry rusks cookies, dry bread, pieces of flatbread etc...ivve tried everything and he wouldn't even feed himself with the spoon/fork...im at my wits end..dont know what to do...tried everything.
i just noticed ur post is quite old so im wondering how is ur daughter now? was it just a phase, did u try any thing new?