Is is possible that she is just thirsty rather than actually being hungry when she is waking and looking for a bottle. Perhaps try her with a drink of water at night if she wakes up. My LO would willingly drink milk all day long if I let him but I give him a bottle first thing and last thing and that's it. The rest of the time he gets water, and maybe once a week a diluted smoothie. I make sure he always has a cup of water accesible and if he starts looking for a bottle during the day I just give him his cup of water.
Regarding snacks my LO is generally a good eater, but when he is having off times and not eating as much as I feel he should at meal times then I try and give him more than 3 meals a day, basically instead of snacks (which I try to avoid) I essentially give him another small portion of a meal as a finger food snack. So he might get some veg sticks and pasta, fruit and cheese, some brown bread sandwiches. I try and sit down with him for these and have some fruit or something myself so that it is like another mini meal time, rather than just giving him snacks to get on with himself (which he will just peck at and which defintely ruin his meal time).
If your LO is used to having had smaller meals and snacks then she might not yet be physically able to sit down and eat enough in one sitting to fully satisfy her needs. Maybe try a mid afternoon mini meal if that is possible and gradually reduce the size of that and increase the size of her other meals as she improves with her eating.
All in all it sounds like you are making great progress. Just be patient and I'm sure things will all work themselves out. After all your LO has had a long time of not eating properly and has to learn a lot of new habits now so it will all just take time as you all find your way and get into better habits.
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