Originally Posted by Claire76
Susie - I understand his problems lately, have supported him the whole time but he is still being incredibly selfish and the way he was with Finlay today has just put the icing on the cake really. His problems inpact on me too, am not prepared to be treated like I have been any more. I get he's stressed but I'm running myself into the ground and reallynot coping myself. that means sh*t to him. *sighs* really, I'm not going to go into it all again, you all know the deal, nothing any different really and dmbell - thanks for your message, I just don't want to whinge about it all yet again, everyone must be bored stupid of all my crap atm, tis someone else's turn
we are never bored by your posts claire :-)
I was not defending him hun-was just pointing it out. Struck a cord with things I have gone through recently as well.
I find with myself that many times I can be in a cruddy mood or a cruddy way the same time hubby is in a bad way because of other issues and it affects both of us. With me, when I am trying to keep my head above water, I don't have the energy to be "babying" or taking care of , or being overly caring of the other person (aka hubby) and his needs. That has led to more fights than probably anything else-cause I am then " not being nice to him". I find that at times like that, I do what i need for myself and too bad. In your instance I personally would have said-here is Finaly, I need to go out, good bye and I would have left to get some "air" and time for myself.